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Author: Adrianne
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Honored 🎖
Honored to receive the Gates of Health Award from Sigma Gamma Rho Sorority, Inc. – Eta Iota Sigma Chapter .
The Gates of Health Award honors the Soror who has provided opportunities to improve the health of the chapter’s members and the community.
Notice my grubby finger prints where I clutched it 😆.
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The One Practice That Changes Holiday Stress in 30 Seconds
Before you answer another invite, buy another gift, or say yes out of guilt:
Pause.
Place a hand on your heart.
Breathe in for 4. Out for 6.
Then ask yourself: PIESHow am I doing—
Physically,
Intellectually,
Emotionally,
Spiritually?This is your Check-In Moment.
In just 30 seconds, you’ve shifted from reacting to choosing. You’ve given your nervous system a signal of safety and calm. That’s the difference between burnout and balance during the holidays.
CALM and CARE begin with this check-in.
Please don’t skip it.
Why this 30-second practice works.
Stress builds up fast during the holiday season—crowded schedules, social obligations, and endless expectations. By placing a hand on your heart and checking in with PIES, you’re activating your body’s natural relaxation response.
This short practice helps you:
- Lower your stress in under a minute.
- Notice early signs of tension before they overwhelm you.
- Align your choices with what you actually need—physically, intellectually, emotionally, and spiritually.
It’s a nervous system reset you can use anytime, anywhere—before family conversations, while shopping, or even at the dinner table.
Make calm your holiday plan.
This one practice is powerful, but pairing it with daily tools makes it even more effective. That’s why I created the 5-Day Calm Reset.
Each day you’ll receive a short practice—breathwork, mindful movement, or reflection prompts—that you can do in 10 minutes or less. These tools help you release tension, protect your energy, and stay rooted when holiday stress builds up.
Start the 5-Day Calm Reset now — it’s free and powerful.
Rooted in calm, even in chaos.
The holidays don’t have to drain you. With one simple 30-second check-in, you can create space for calm, clarity, and care. Your nervous system will thank you—and so will everyone around you.
- Explore mindfulness tools at Rooted for Care.
- Carry weekly prompts with Wellness on the Weekly.
- Join the free 5-Day Calm Reset to make calm a daily practice.
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Celebrate this goodie-bag milestone with me.
I am incredibly grateful that my book (pictured here with a happy participant), Wellness on the Weekly: 52 Fun Prompts for Mindfulness, Movement and a Whole Lot Less Stress! made its goodie-bag debut at Yoga Games #yogagamesbåstad at Hotel Skansen i Båstad. #gratitude
Don’t let holiday stress or grief get the better of you. Take the free 3 Day Release Tension When Stress Builds Up Course and come back to it whenever you need. Start today.
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Tips for Managing Grief During the Holidays
This is my first Thanksgiving and Christmas as an adult orphan.
The first Thanksgiving and Christmas without my father were unbearable. My family and I mustered through, but just barely. Now, I face another holiday season without my precious mother. The grief feels heavier during the holidays when traditions and memories remind us of those we’ve lost.
If you’re navigating grief this holiday season, I want you to know this: you are not alone. The mix of joy, expectation, and sorrow is overwhelming, but it is possible to honor your grief while protecting your peace.
Practical tips for managing holiday grief.
While grief is deeply personal, these practices can help you release tension and create space for gentleness:
- Permit yourself to say no. Declining invitations or scaling back traditions doesn’t mean you don’t care—it means you’re honoring your energy.
- Create small rituals of remembrance. Light a candle, share a story, or set a place at the table to honor your loved one.
- Practice compassionate pauses. When emotions surge, place a hand on your heart, breathe deeply, and remind yourself: “This moment is enough.”
- Lean on support. Whether it’s a trusted friend, a faith community, or a therapist, connection helps soften the weight of grief.
- Keep expectations simple. Focus on presence, not perfection. Allow this season to look different—it’s an act of self-care.
These tools align with my Rooted for Care methods—small, repeatable practices that regulate the nervous system and bring steadiness when emotions feel overwhelming.
A video series for grieving hearts.
If you are grieving during the holidays, I created a video series just for us. It offers practices, reflections, and encouragement to help you move through this challenging season with gentleness.
Restore calm with a simple daily practice.
Grief doesn’t disappear, but you can learn to carry it with more ease. That’s why I created the free 5-Day Calm Reset. It’s a short program designed to help you release tension and find steadiness in less than 10 minutes a day.
Each day includes:
- Gentle movement or breath cues you can do anywhere—even in your chair.
- Simple journaling and reflection prompts for emotional release.
- Affirmations to support your nervous system when stress builds up.
Start the 5-Day Calm Reset now — it’s free and powerful.
Honoring grief, protecting your peace.
The holidays can magnify loss, but they can also be a time to create gentler traditions, invite quiet moments of remembrance, and prioritize your nervous system’s need for calm. Managing grief isn’t about avoiding it—it’s about allowing space for both sorrow and steadiness.
- Explore more practices at Rooted for Care.
- Support your journey with weekly prompts in Wellness on the Weekly.
- Join the free 5-Day Calm Reset to reclaim calm in the midst of grief.
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Don’t Wait for the Holidays to Burn You Out
Most people wait too long.
They wait until:
- They’ve said yes to everything.
- The calendar is overbooked with events and obligations.
- The tension climbs into their shoulders, and sleep disappears.
But not you. You’re reading this because you’re ready to do it differently. You’re looking for a holiday stress management plan that keeps your nervous system steady before burnout arrives.
You don’t need another to-do list.
You need a strategy.That’s where the CALM and CARE Methods come in—practical frameworks for stress relief that help you protect your peace and energy.
✅ Check in before you commit
✅ Activate one small tool when the pressure builds
✅ Repattern people-pleasing with honest boundaries
✅ Embody the version of you that doesn’t sacrifice peace to meet expectationsYou don’t have to wait for burnout. You can start today with small, repeatable practices that release tension and reset your nervous system.
Why holiday burnout happens.
The holiday season often brings unrealistic expectations. Too many events, financial strain, and the pressure to make everything “perfect” quickly drain your energy. Without tools, stress piles up and leads to exhaustion, irritability, and sleepless nights.
The CALM and CARE Methods give you a nervous system-friendly framework to break the cycle:
- CALM Method → Connect breath, Activate body, Listen inside, Make one choice.
- CARE Method → Check-in, Action, Reflect, Extend.
Both methods take less than 10 minutes and can be used anywhere—before a holiday party, in the car, or even at the dinner table.
Get ahead of the rush.
Instead of waiting until holiday stress overwhelms you, start with the free 5-Day Calm Reset. It’s a short program designed to help you release tension and stay rooted during busy seasons.
Each day includes:
- Movement or breath cues you can do anywhere—even in your chair.
- Reflection prompts to manage stress before it builds up.
- Practical affirmations to remind you that your peace matters.
Start the 5-Day Calm Reset now — it’s free and powerful.
Rooted, not rushed
This holiday season, you don’t need to wait for burnout to remind you to slow down. With the CALM and CARE Methods, you can set boundaries, manage stress, and protect your energy before exhaustion sets in. The best gift you can give yourself—and those around you—is steadiness.
- Explore tools for stress relief at Rooted for Care.
- Carry weekly mindfulness prompts with Wellness on the Weekly.
- Begin the free 5-Day Calm Reset to release tension before holiday burnout hits.
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Zaz Grumbar: Yoga Saved Me Talk Tuesday
Zaz invites you to return to yourself.
The Yoga Saved Me Podcast continues with a special Talk Tuesday episode featuring Zaz Grumbar. In this conversation, Zaz shares wisdom on slowing down, listening inward, and practicing yoga as a way of returning to your true self.
Yoga isn’t just about movement—it’s about nervous system regulation, mindful breathing, and choosing presence when stress builds up. Zaz’s insights remind us that the practice is accessible to everyone, no matter your background or current challenges.
Listen to the full conversation here:
Why this Talk Tuesday matters.
The holiday season and end-of-year pace can push us into overdrive. Yoga, mindfulness, and grounding practices offer a way to pause and protect your nervous system. Conversations like this one with Zaz Grumbar help us remember that:
- Yoga is more than poses—it’s a practice of returning to yourself.
- Stress release happens when you pair breath with awareness.
- You don’t have to wait for burnout to reset. You can start with small steps today.
This is the heart of Rooted for Care—practical tools to help you stay steady, calm, and rooted when life gets overwhelming.
Try it for yourself: 5-Day Calm Reset.
If Zaz’s message resonates and you’re ready to put it into practice, start with the free 5-Day Calm Reset. It’s a short, accessible program that gives you simple tools to release tension daily.
Each day includes:
- Movement or breath cues you can do anywhere—even in your chair.
- Reflection prompts to guide your awareness.
- Short affirmations to keep your nervous system steady.
Start the 5-Day Calm Reset now — it’s free and powerful.
Rooted calm through conversation
Talk Tuesday with Zaz Grumbar is a reminder that yoga, breath, and presence are not luxuries—they are essential practices for resilience. Whether you’re navigating the stress of the season or simply looking for a way to reconnect, this conversation will guide you back to yourself.
- Explore more mindful tools at Rooted for Care.
- Carry weekly mindfulness practices with Wellness on the Weekly.
- Begin the free 5-Day Calm Reset to experience daily calm.
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Jeanette Rodriguez: Yoga Saved Me Talk Tuesday
Introducing Ethereal Lotus Healing School.
The Yoga Saved Me Podcast welcomes Jeanette Rodriguez, founder of the Ethereal Lotus Healing School. In this Talk Tuesday episode, Jeanette shares her journey of integrating yoga, healing, and spiritual practice to create a holistic approach to wellness. Her story is one of resilience, empowerment, and the power of yoga to restore balance.
Jeanette’s insights remind us that healing isn’t just physical—it’s emotional, mental, and spiritual. Through her work, she guides others to release tension, cultivate inner peace, and return to themselves with compassion.
Watch and listen to the full episode here:
Why this conversation matters.
So many of us carry hidden stress—work demands, family pressures, and the constant push to do more. Jeanette’s approach through the Ethereal Lotus Healing School shows how yoga and mindfulness can create meaningful shifts. This episode highlights:
- The importance of pausing and reconnecting with your body.
- How holistic healing goes beyond exercise—it’s about nervous system care.
- Why boundaries and breathwork are essential for resilience.
Her story is a powerful reminder that yoga truly saves us—not by removing challenges, but by helping us meet them with steadiness.
Reclaim calm with daily support.
If Jeanette’s message resonates with you, it’s time to put calm into practice. The free 5-Day Calm Reset is designed to help you manage stress in just 10 minutes a day.
Each day includes:
- Movement or breath cues you can do anywhere—even in your chair.
- Reflection prompts to process tension before it builds up.
- Short affirmations to root your nervous system in steadiness.
Start the 5-Day Calm Reset now — it’s free and powerful.
Rooted in care, rooted in calm.
Jeanette Rodriguez and the Ethereal Lotus Healing School remind us that wellness is not about perfection—it’s about presence. Yoga, breath, and mindful boundaries are tools we can all use to protect our peace. This Talk Tuesday episode offers inspiration and practical wisdom for anyone seeking resilience during stressful seasons.
- ✨ Explore more mindful practices at Rooted for Care.
- ✨ Carry weekly practices with Wellness on the Weekly.
- ✨ Begin the free 5-Day Calm Reset to reclaim calm today.
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Michelle O’Brien: Yoga Saved Me Talk Tuesday
Michelle introduces yoga to women in the prenatal and postnatal phases of their lives.
On this Yoga Saved Me – Talk Tuesday episode, Michelle O’Brien shares how yoga supports women through pregnancy, birth recovery, and the first demanding months of motherhood. Her approach centers nervous system care, functional movement, and compassionate pacing—so women can release tension, build strength safely, and feel grounded during a significant life transition.
Watch and listen to the whole conversation:
Why prenatal & postnatal yoga matters.
- Nervous system regulation: Breath-led practices reduce stress and help you sleep better.
- Functional strength: Gentle sequences support the core, hips, and back for pregnancy/postpartum demands.
- Pelvic floor awareness: Cueing that balances engagement and release to aid recovery.
- Pain reduction: Simple mobility work eases neck, shoulder, and lower-back tension from feeding and carrying.
- Emotional steadiness: Mindful pauses and affirmations help foster resilience during times of change.
Michelle’s guidance echoes the Rooted for Care philosophy: small, repeatable practices that support calm, capacity, and recovery—mainly when stress builds up.
Practical tips from the episode.
- Start with breath: Inhale 4, exhale 6 for two minutes to downshift before movement.
- Move in minutes: Try a 5–10 minute sequence: cat-cow, hip circles, supported squat, side-lying leg lifts.
- Post-feed reset: Shoulder openers at a wall or doorframe to counter rounding.
- Pelvic floor check-in: Gentle contract–release with synchronized breath (no max effort).
- Affirmation: “My breath steadies my body. My pace is enough.”
Note: Always follow your provider’s guidance—especially postpartum and after birth or surgical recovery. Adapt movements to comfort, use props, and prioritize rest.
Want daily support? Join the free 5-Day Calm Reset.
Whether you’re expecting, newly postpartum, or simply navigating a full season, the free 5-Day Calm Reset helps you build steadiness in under 10 minutes a day.
Each day includes:
- Movement or breath cues you can do anywhere—even in your chair.
- Short reflection prompts to release tension and protect your energy.
- Simple affirmations to keep your nervous system rooted and calm.
Start the 5-Day Calm Reset now — it’s free and powerful.
Rooted calm for every phase.
Michelle O’Brien’s work shows that yoga can meet you where you are—pregnant, postpartum, or rebuilding strength after a long season. With breath, gentle movement, and compassionate boundaries, you can move through change feeling supported, steady, and strong.
- Explore more mindful tools at Rooted for Care.
- Keep weekly practices with Wellness on the Weekly.
- Begin the free 5-Day Calm Reset to build a foundation of calm.
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A Day in the Life: Reclaiming Calm with the CALM, CARE, and ROOT Methods
This is not a perfect day. It’s a practiced one.
How to release tension when stress builds up—moment by moment. She’s not chasing peace anymore.
She’s reclaiming it—moment by moment.Here’s how she uses the CALM, CARE, and ROOT Methods together to stay present, grounded, and intentional throughout the day.
6:30 AM — She Wakes Up Anxious
The room is quiet, but her mind isn’t.
She remembers a bill due, a conversation she’s dreading, and that email she forgot to send.Instead of reaching for her phone, she goes for her breath.
CALM — Check In
She places a hand on her heart and notices: shallow breath, clenched jaw, racing thoughts.CARE — Check In
She silently runs through her PIES:
Physical – tense
Intellectual – scattered
Emotional – uneasy
Spiritual – disconnectedShe doesn’t try to fix it.
She sees it.ROOT — Recognize
This isn’t new. Mornings often start with panic.
Now she knows the pattern.
Naming it is her first win of the day.
11:15 AM — The Curveball at Work
Her supervisor pulls her into an unexpected call.
The tone is sharp. The deadline is tight.
Her shoulders tense. Her inner critic gets loud.CALM — Activate Your Tools
She grounds her feet, softens her jaw, and exhales longer than she inhales.CARE — Activate
She scribbles down a calming phrase:
“I can move through this one breath at a time.”ROOT — Own Your Response
She used to shut down or people-please.
This time, she asks a clarifying question.
Then steps away from the screen for 90 seconds to reset.She’s not ignoring the stress—she’s regulating through it.
2:45 PM — The Midday Spiral
She’s overbooked.
She skipped lunch again.
She feels the guilt creeping in.CALM — Learn & Repattern
She chooses to step away and eat—even if the to-do list is still long.CARE — Repattern
She says out loud: “Pausing is not failure. It’s how I finish strong.”ROOT — Organize Your Energy
She reschedules a non-urgent task and stretches for 3 minutes.This is not a weakness. It’s a strategy.
9:30 PM — The Worry Returns
The house is quiet.
But her thoughts are loud:
“You should’ve done more.”
“You forgot to respond.”
“You’re falling behind.”CALM — Move with Intention
Instead of scrolling, she moves gently. A few stretches. A deep sigh.CARE — Embody
She places her journal beside the bed and writes one sentence:
“I am choosing to rest—not because I did everything, but because I matter.”ROOT — Tend Consistently
She drinks water. Washes her face.
Sets her alarm 10 minutes later tomorrow.Small things. Done with care.
That’s how she closes her day.
This Is How She Reclaims Calm.
She doesn’t do it perfectly.
She doesn’t always catch the spiral in time.
But she has a method—and it meets her where she is.- CALM helps her regulate in real time.
- CARE brings self-awareness and softness.
- ROOT creates a structure she can return to, even when things fall apart.
This isn’t just self-care. It’s self-leadership.
This is what it means to reclaim calm. And it’s available to her—every single day.
Why these methods work (nervous system friendly).
When stress builds up, the body stores tension in the jaw, chest, belly, hips, and breath. The CALM, CARE, and ROOT Methods provide a simple map for nervous system regulation and daily stress management:
- CALM: Connect breath → Activate body → Listen inside → Make one choice.
- CARE: Check-in → Action → Reflect → Extend.
- ROOT: Recognize → Own → Open → Track.
Used together, they help you release tension when stress builds up, protect your energy, and choose steady actions you can sustain.
Start your own practice: free 5-Day Calm Reset.
If you’re ready to try this with guidance, join the free 5-Day Calm Reset.
Each day includes movement or breath cues you can do anywhere—even in your chair. In under 10 minutes, you’ll build repeatable tools to feel grounded and clear.
Start now — it’s free and powerful
More calm, less rush.
- Explore more tools at Rooted for Care.
- Carry weekly prompts with Wellness on the Weekly.
- Keep practicing the CALM, CARE, and ROOT Methods to reclaim calm every day.