I am incredibly grateful that my book (pictured here with a happy participant), Wellness on the Weekly: 52 Fun Prompts for Mindfulness, Movement and a Whole Lot Less Stress! made its goodie-bag debut at Yoga Games#yogagamesbåstad at Hotel Skansen i Båstad. #gratitude
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This is my first Thanksgiving and Christmas as an adult orphan.
The first Thanksgiving and Christmas without my father were unbearable. My family and I mustered through, but just barely. Now, I face another holiday season without my precious mother. The grief feels heavier during the holidays when traditions and memories remind us of those we’ve lost.
If you’re navigating grief this holiday season, I want you to know this: you are not alone. The mix of joy, expectation, and sorrow is overwhelming, but it is possible to honor your grief while protecting your peace.
Practical tips for managing holiday grief.
While grief is deeply personal, these practices can help you release tension and create space for gentleness:
Permit yourself to say no. Declining invitations or scaling back traditions doesn’t mean you don’t care—it means you’re honoring your energy.
Create small rituals of remembrance. Light a candle, share a story, or set a place at the table to honor your loved one.
Practice compassionate pauses. When emotions surge, place a hand on your heart, breathe deeply, and remind yourself: “This moment is enough.”
Lean on support. Whether it’s a trusted friend, a faith community, or a therapist, connection helps soften the weight of grief.
Keep expectations simple. Focus on presence, not perfection. Allow this season to look different—it’s an act of self-care.
These tools align with my Rooted for Care methods—small, repeatable practices that regulate the nervous system and bring steadiness when emotions feel overwhelming.
A video series for grieving hearts.
If you are grieving during the holidays, I created a video series just for us. It offers practices, reflections, and encouragement to help you move through this challenging season with gentleness.
Restore calm with a simple daily practice.
Grief doesn’t disappear, but you can learn to carry it with more ease. That’s why I created the free 5-Day Calm Reset. It’s a short program designed to help you release tension and find steadiness in less than 10 minutes a day.
Each day includes:
Gentle movement or breath cues you can do anywhere—even in your chair.
Simple journaling and reflection prompts for emotional release.
Affirmations to support your nervous system when stress builds up.
The holidays can magnify loss, but they can also be a time to create gentler traditions, invite quiet moments of remembrance, and prioritize your nervous system’s need for calm. Managing grief isn’t about avoiding it—it’s about allowing space for both sorrow and steadiness.
Today’s practice is for anyone grieving on Father’s Day.
For children missing their fathers.
For fathers missing their children.
For all who carry invisible loss.
May you feel seen, held, and gently supported in this space.
Press play for a gentle, guided breathing practice to hold grief with grace.
Why a Breath Practice Helps on Father’s Day
Regulates the nervous system: slow exhales signal safety.
Makes space for emotion: breath anchors you when memories swell.
Builds a ritual: a simple, repeatable practice you can return to each year.
Breath of Love: 3-Minute Practice
Sit with feet grounded. Unclench your jaw, hands, and belly.
Place a hand on heart. Inhale 4, exhale 6 (repeat 6 rounds).
On each exhale, silently say: “I am held.”
Finish with one sentence in a journal: “Today I’m honoring…”
Gentle Movement Options
Seated cat–cow for 60 seconds
Shoulder rolls (5 each direction)
Hand-over-heart swaying side to side for one minute
After my Daddy died, I was lost in grief. That pain cracked me open—and becoming a Yoga teacher was his final gift to me. His influence continues to guide my work as a mindfulness activist, author, and trauma-informed teacher. This post is for all fathers and the people who carry their memory forward.
This tribute video was created by a dear friend from Howard University — no filters, just love, remembrance, and legacy:
In Daddy’s honor, I created a guided journal designed to help you capture the life stories of the men who shaped you. With one prompt each week, you’ll create a legacy book in a year. It’s a meaningful way to keep memories alive and celebrate the wisdom passed down through generations.
Because I Am: My Story Matters is a thoughtful gift for fathers, grandfathers, uncles, godfathers, and bonus dads. A keepsake that invites reflection, gratitude, and storytelling.
This Father’s Day, give the gift of memory. Encourage the fathers and father figures in your life to share their stories—their challenges, their triumphs, their values. It’s a gift that lasts for generations.
Because their stories matter. Because legacy matters. Because love matters.
While honoring the memory of loved ones, it’s equally important to care for your own nervous system and emotional well-being. The 5-Day Calm Reset is a free online course for women over 40, offering daily breathwork, movement, and mindfulness practices that restore balance and ease.